Stability... consistency... focus

I kept on reminding myself of these three words. Both in work and at home.

Stability

My dear mother reminded me many times. It is east to go up. The more difficult task is to stay there. 

For home, I think kids will be happier to live in a stable environment. Not only physical wise, but also emotional wise (admittedly, am guilty of the latter). 

Consistencies

How it differs from stability?

To me, stability is situational. But consistency reflect our values and judgement. Whether it hovers around a certain mark, or to the other extreme: being unpredictable.

For child education, my hubby is a firm believer of this. He set the rule, he expects the kids to follow the rules. No matter what. Thread works well for him because our notty-but-cute offspring knows what comes if they ignore it.

Put it simply, he got little trouble with getting the kids to behave.

Last is...

Focus

In the office, I keep a little to do list. Gleefully crossing item as completed. 

This enables me to multitask, and to stay focused on task on hand. 

And, managing people wise, it will be easier if everyone shares a same focus at a time.

Then I realized... This should be done at home too. Let me figure it out how...