Secret of happiness #1: Love Thyself

HI read somewhere a few weeks ago that for working moms, firstly we're a mother. We shall not forget this. Career shall come only next to it. 

Partially agree. I do a firm believer that there's no such thing as part time mom, and that children deserve us at out best. Not the leftover.

BUT, after 8 years of mommying, I know that first of all, a mom should be well cared. Self-cared that is. Physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Only then a mother can be at her best.

I used to be overly guilty of spending an evening off with friends or dating with hubby.

But had enough years of that.

A nice smelling lotion, long shower, chocolates, a good read, many ways to steal time to enjoy. To stop by smelling the roses. A few seconds living life to the fullest, thanking Him that all are well.

After we took care of the me-time and hubby-time, general vibe around the house is much better. I'm fresh around the kids, and genuinely there for them. Their grievances, mischief, and all.

And oh... Socializing in the office is not counted. 

Some may say a stay at home mom is having it harder to steal time for herself. Half-full or half-empty, it's our choice!

P.S. I am in no way regarding myself as self-help guru or whatsnot. These postings are meant as a reminder for my humble self at the very least.