The Perks of Having Faith

Recently, US has a historical turning point (it seems, I hope for the better) on racism.

Another sensitive topic is religion.

This post touches on that so I feel the need to set the stage right in the beginning. I write with a purpose of sharing useful tips from my life experience. Took me quite some time to consider, but it’s indeed very useful and important for me so here it is...

From the title, ‘faith’ refers loosely to any believes or religion. To me, any teaching that encourages human to be kind to others and do fruitful deeds are good. I do not subscribe (though by right I should, I believe my God is kind and understanding) to you-will-go-to-hell-unless-you-join-my-religion. Main reason, I think God is kind and wise. He will see the good deeds.

Up to now, I suppose you can guess that yes, I am not a free-thinker or an atheist.

I came from a country that having a religion is mandatory. So it was an eye opener when I realized that in Singapore, it is not.

What is the perks of having a faith? To me, it allows me to hope. When times are tough, I have my God to lean on and ask for help. Even in a messed up time, I dare to hope that things happen for a reason, and eventually all will be ok. Uncertain future? Have faith and hope.

With this, I do not blame others or myself when things go wrong. And I don’t get frustrated easily too.

For my children, I don’t force faith. I provide the environment and send them to faith formation classes. I have shared the above purpose with them, eventually I hope that our faith can help them similarly when they’re away from me. 

I think, having faith may be able to reduce teens suicide rate.

Friends within the religious group tends to be kinder, less judgmental. This provides support for rough teenage time. Coping with physical change, mood swing, academic demand... is no joke.

So if it never occur to you to try, can give it a go. If you have strayed, can come back to your faith. If you are comfortable as is now, also cool.